From Thursday night to Monday morning it was "trial by fire," or rather, ice, at our house to see if we could cope with quintuplets inside for three whole days by ourselves. . . except we cheated. ;) We took them to others whose cars were iced into their own driveways on Friday and Saturday afternoon. (Andersons and Naomi and Co., THANK YOU!) Gavin is used to driving on snow and ice up in the Sierra Nevada mountains of CA, so he did fine getting around VERY slowly.
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Our street and walkway, looking out our dining room window, which the kids spent a lot of time doing. |
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Every last twig and leave was encased in ice. It was gorgeous but treacherous! |
Sunday was the longest day here by ourselves with the five babies, and I could have kissed Judy's feet when she knocked on our door Monday morning! Not only did she come to care for the babies, she brought homemade goodies, did the dishes and continued where I had left off the night before with the laundry. (We had a bit of a fiasco with Seth's soy-formula-laden feeding bag. It involved a huge eruption that spattered nearly everything in our room, including three blankets, a stack of papers, our computer and the ceiling fan! So much landed in my freshly shampooed hair, it made it completely stiff and I had to re-wash it.)
Doing all the laundry, dishes and clean-up for quintuplets plus three bigger people seems a never-ending task. The amount of laundry is truly staggering! All this to say, I DEEPLY appreciate all the help we receive. I'm also glad that in Papua New Guinea it's very affordable to hire local ladies to clean and do laundry (where we line-dry everything); in fact, it's expected - it's a vital part of the local economy. If I couldn't get the help, I can't imagine having time to do anything BUT laundry, and we have to cook from scratch over there, too. Plus things get dirty very quickly due to the dirt roads that are either dusty or muddy depending on the season or even time of day. Mud becomes dust very quickly in the Equatorial sun, and dust becomes mud nearly instantly in the tropical rains. Whenever I am tempted to buy darling outfits for the babies to wear when they get older, I remind myself how quickly Ukarumpa will reduce them to brownish, stained play clothes.
Anyway, to help the days at home pass more quickly we got a little bit inventive: I cleaned out one of the cupboards so the kids could use it to play in, and from then on they've considered it "their" cupboard, even when the pots and pans are still in it!
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Will and Marcie |
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Will ascending the "loft" |
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Don't you love the fox on his bottom? [Cue the viral YouTube music video in your head.] Each of the boys has one of these snuggly sleepers, thanks to Carlene, and Marcie is wearing an outfit that used to be Megan's. So sweet! |
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Now David is on the top shelf |
We were so bored we got a little silly:
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Gracie in a mixing bowl. A very serious thing.
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We worked on keeping warm and comfortable. Unfortunately, the babies decided bottles are much more "comfortable" than sippy cups. At night, anyway, we still give them a bottle because it helps them settle down. So much for my post about putting away all the small bottles! :}
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Will, Grace, David |
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David finds three pacifiers (one in the mouth, one in each hand) much more comforting than just one. |
Isaac was a huge help!:
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Isaac and Seth with David behind them |
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Gavin, Isaac, Gracie |
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Pretty little Grace, whose new nickname is "Mouse" because she squeaks and quivers when she wants attention.
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In other baby news, Will and David have started saying "hot" about my coffee or food, or, in the case of David, when he walked in front of the space heater and felt the warm air blowing out. So cute!
Another super cute thing David did recently was try to give Seth his inhalers: He put the mask right over Seth's mouth and nose and even tried to depress the canister to deliver the meds! Both boys thought it was great fun. :)
Marcie has taken up to 30 steps at a time. She decides to go on adorable, cautious little walks throughout the day. Seth is standing more on his own, especially while bending over toys, and Gracie
can stand but usually doesn't want to.
The kids laugh and play with each other constantly now. It's just too precious for words. I hope to post some video soon.
Keep warm!
Love,
Carrie
Even though I don't comment very often..... I want you to know that I stay on top of things with your pictures and comments. The cupboard activities are adorable. I love that I can picture the laundry room as I read and other places in the house. Thanks for having the energy to post and write. I'm with you in spirit! :)
ReplyDeleteAwww, thanks! Yes, you WELL KNOW the staggering amount of laundry, don't you??!! Let me tell you, these kiddos make way more mess now, though, than when you were here, for obvious reasons! And it's not a situation where we can clean up as we go along; much of the time we're just putting out fires. Constant, constant distraction and redirection, only to see the huge mess again an hour later. Darn, still there. ;) Love, Carrie
DeleteI keep forgetting to thank whoever sent Isaac the popcorn and goodie tin way back in Oct or Nov! He was just thrilled by it and shared it very generously with all of us. :) You made his day/week.
ReplyDeleteDo you really realistically expect to take Seth to a place where you can't get proper medical care in a timely manner? Just wondering how that will work.
ReplyDeleteBabies' lungs grow for the first two years of their lives, and the vast majority of kids outgrow their breathing issues, which (it seems right now) Seth is doing. We pray that continues. There is no discernible difference in his breathing before and after his inhalers, and he's breathing slowly and evenly like the other kids.We have an excellent clinic on our center where he can be hooked up to oxygen and receive breathing treatments from expatriate doctors and excellent Papua New Guinean and expat nurses, plus there's portable oxygen for any necessary emergency transport to Australia (4 hours flight) given a worse case scenario, More to the point, the clinic won't release us to come back until they have medical "proof" of good health from the specialists here. [And I will say there are lots of asthmatics where we live. It's something they treat there on a regular basis.] Obviously, if the medical staff here or there isn't comfortable with us taking him to Papua New Guinea in July, we'll wait until they give the go-ahead. Seth is our priority, not Papua New Guinea. The specialists and therapists here have said summer of 2014 is a reasonable goal given his current health state and progress. He should be eating completely on his own within 6 months if not sooner. He drinks from a sippy cup and eats along with the kids throughout the day already. Today we were advised to back off even more on his nighttime tube feeds! So the short answer to your question is "we CAN get proper medical care in a timely manner where we are, and if it's something requiring hospitalization we can med-evac him to Australia." Thanks for caring!
DeleteOH my gosh .... stop with the cuteness. I want to play in the cabinets!
ReplyDeleteOur cabinets are your cabinets.
DeleteI love the three completely different ways Will, Gracie and David are holding their bottles....two-handed, right handed palm of hand on bottom, left handed around middle of bottle!
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