This is the blog for Gavin and Carrie Jones and family. We live in Papua New Guinea and are working to see lives transformed by the living Word of God through Bible translation. Gavin is a helicopter pilot. Carrie, who has her degree in Public Health, is the lab supervisor and one of five lab techs at our busy rural clinic. Our son, Isaac, was born in 2004 and our quintuplets, Will, David, Marcie, Seth, and Grace, were born in 2012.

Let love and faithfulness never leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart. The you will win favor and a good name in the sight of God and man. Trust in the Lord with all you heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He will make your paths straight. -Proverbs 3:3-6

Thursday, April 11, 2019

Updated Jones 8 Update :)

April 11, 2019
Dear friends and family,

We are just over 90 days away from our anticipated return to Papua New Guinea (PNG)! We have tickets for the 14th of July, arriving at our home in the Eastern Highlands on the 19th. There is MUCH to be done before we depart, so along with our excitement we’re also soberly aware of our need of God’s help in this time of transition. Please pray we can end our furlough year wisely and well (and in good health, Lord willing!). We have lots of last doctor and dental appointments, a few speaking engagements we greatly look forward to, and many precious people to swing by and see on our trek back to the West Coast from North Carolina.

As we review our completed partnership team, we want to say a big THANK YOU to one-time givers, to those partners who have recently increased their giving, to those who have so faithfully and generously given all these years, and to those who pray for us. We appreciate continued prayer for God’s provision of wisdom, patience, love and peace as we travel and return to PNG. (We remember with gratitude and humility Dona and Odus, who went to be with the Lord this past year. We praise Him for His faithfulness to and through them and pray for comfort for their loved ones left behind.)

Again, THANK YOU more than we can ever say! We feel very blessed and loved.

Gratefully in Christ,

Gavin and Carrie Jones, for Isaac, Will, David, Marcie, Seth and Gracie

The attached photos are from a recent hike/climb up Crowder’s Mountain about an hour away from us.



Thursday, March 21, 2019

Musings on my terrific kids (a long, wordy post with LOTS of photos!)

Holding her certificates and teacher's sweet commendation letter
There was a lovely little breakfast and ceremony
Marcie and Seth have both been chosen, at separate times, as their class's "Terrific Kid" of the grading period. Seth's was for creativity and optimism, Marcie's for kindness and caring. We think all our kids are terrific, though, and in unique ways . . .
Seth with his certificate
When we spoke at Waxhaw Bible Church a couple of months ago, Isaac was asked what the HARDEST part and the BEST part of having quintuplet siblings was. His answer was astonishingly astute and accurate, something I'd never thought before but with which I completely agree. 
He said, "The hardest part IS the best part. It's that they are five unique individuals with different personalities and needs, not just one big group of kids. It's really neat to get to know them as individuals, but it's also really hard to meet those individual needs. It's tempting to always treat them as one big group when they're together, and that's not fair to them." 
I love this sweet-tempered, goofy big brother, my first-born terrific kid!
He still lets me hug him and actually returns the hugs - how rare is that for a 15-year-old?

Dressed for 80's day
An aside: Isaac loves to be with them one or two at a time and is quite intentional about it. He's like the master of ceremonies with the Xbox. :) Minecraft and Lego Star Wars are the two favorite games, and it's such fun to see them having a blast together with their big brother. He also loves rough-housing with and chasing them, and they're always trying to egg him on!
Isaac holding his driver's permit!

Back to Isaac's insightful comment, with some of my musings:

They didn't choose to be quints. They don't want to be labeled as part of a group ONLY - although at this point they seem quite sanguine about their identities as quintuplets and love to tell people about it when it comes up. However, they don't tend to volunteer the information until someone asks or otherwise mentions it. Oh, and they always include Isaac! They are indeed each so different from all the others, and each one deserves to have his or her needs and desires and personalities given the proper weight and respect (as much as any of us "deserves" anything - its all grace!). ALL their feelings matter, not just the one who's crying at the moment. It's a constant balancing act, a constant challenge to be alert to who needs the attention and tender loving care in that instant of time! I can't give each of the five plus Isaac the abundance of attention and care they deserve simultaneously.   I have to prioritize so I can be fully there for the one who is the most needy at that time. And needs present themselves differently. One child will wail (Will), another will go off and quietly cry without us even realizing he's sad about something (David), another will gradually dissolve into tears (Seth), while two more will run to their rooms and WEEP loudly (the girls). The things that hurt each one's feelings differ too, so parenting has to be tailored at least somewhat. I realize this is true in any family, but I think the sheer number and volume of same-aged kids makes it seem sometimes like a continuous fight to stay on top of a mountain of sliding shale. What's sweet is they look out for each other and will often come tell me if someone is sad or struggling, or stand up for each other if someone is being unfair! They all love each other INTENSELY (intensity is not something in short supply around here). 

This is a sad picture, but it illustrates the challenges we face in meeting our kids' emotional needs!! Rest assured Will recovered from his grief at being thwarted in going first. Gracie is our happiest kid at this point, always skipping and hopping and grinning through life. Will feels everything deeply, so he is either perfectly happy or perfectly miserable!

Despite the challenges and difficulties, and regardless of the fact that this is never easy, it's SO rewarding and God is SO incredibly faithful to strengthen and encourage us, including through many of you!!! (We love you!) When we look back to all stages and ages we've made it through, we honestly wonder how we survived the moment-by-moment continuous mental and emotional labor. Gavin, in looking ahead, sometimes struggles with discouragement that there's still so much that can and will be stretching and exhausting. I often think, "I need to ask people to keep praying for us, because this is still HARD." 

However, I just thought tonight how supernatural and gracious the God-given joy and stamina really is. We love and enjoy our kids so very much. They are six of my most favorite people, in all their uniqueness and sweetness and struggles. They are a GIFT. A gift that keep giving and giving and giving . . . and taking, and taking, and taking! ;) They are worth it all! 

But please keep praying for us. :)

Sweet brothers reading together

Swimming remains a favorite activity



An impromptu tea party on a cold day!

Doing crafts at JAARS Day
More crafts, this of a very heavy-duty kind!

Marcie and David sitting in the airplane

Will and Seth's turn




Gracie and Seth climbing on a rock wall near us

Will

Silly swinging Seth - still our "class clown," always trying to get us all to laugh.


Note Will's top two front teeth are missing!

Seth's two front bottom teeth are also missing!
He's so strong . . . ;)






Grandma giving Seth a hug during her last visit.
Grandma treated us all to Freddy's hamburgers and milkshakes!


Thursday, February 14, 2019

Happy Valentine's Day from the Quints!











Poor Seth, caught drawing his lower lip over his lower teeth. I don't know WHY the photographer didn't do an immediate retake! (Alas, the opportunity for retakes expired before we saw the photos.) 


Monday, January 14, 2019

Some photos from the past month and some funny quint quotes

I'm sure some of the quotes at the end of this post are ones I've shared before, but they still make me chuckle, plus we've had some new funny quotes the past couple of days.

Now for the month's photos, some from Texas and some from California:


Poor Daddy got sick with our N.C. cold! My sister and I tried to hug him all better!

Mom and me



Matching cousin PJ's! Only Gracie and David went on to CA with Gavin, so Marcie wasn't in this photo although she has the matching pair of soft footed pajamas.


In front of the CA family cabin's fireplace on New Year's Day

David learning archery!

In front of the family cabin - great memories here!


Taken while visiting with friends from Gavin's LeTourneau days

With our LeTourneau friends, trying to recreate the photo below. The kids have grown a little!




Will is our unintentionally funniest child, so the majority of these quotes are by him. He's just a quirky kid!:

Back in June, I asked Will to hold a box of cereal for me to help us carry everything through the terminal. His response: “No! I don’t want to hold it because then it will make me want to eat it and I don’t like it.”

In August, while traveling and staying at cousin Julie's house: “Mommy, are the pretend monsters that aren’t real not going to come into this room tonight?”

"No, buddy, the pretend monsters that aren’t real are not going to come into this room tonight" - trying not to laugh

“What about the other kind of monsters? Are they going to come into this room tonight?”

"No, no monsters are going to come into this room tonight."

Then . . . 

“What about all the other rooms?”


In November, regarding his toddler cousin who is small for her age but extremely verbal: "Hey, she can speak like a real human!"

Seth's quote from yesterday: 

“Mommy, were there any kind dinosaurs?”

“Well, yes, in the garden of Eden they were all kind.”

“But what about in the real world, not Eden? Was Argentinosaurus kind?”

“Yes, I think they probably were kind because I think they ate plants.”

“Maybe they were kind, but maybe sometimes they stepped on a paleontologist on accident and squished him because they didn’t see the paleontologist."

And David's from last night while getting ready for bed:

“Mom, none of these days are the best day of my life!” 

“Well buddy, it’s okay that not every day is the best one of your life.”

“But these days are all the worst days of my life!”

“Why are they the worst days? You’ve gotten to do lots of fun things today - children’s church [which they love], watching God stories on TV, playing at community group, and eating pizza! Lots of kids would be happy to do even one of those fun things!”

“It’s you and Daddy who make these the worst days of my life! You keep doing things that make me cry!”

“Like what, buddy?”

“Like telling me to give Marcie's snow tiger back to her!"

(WORST. PARENTS. EVER. I hope his future therapist laughs him out of her office . . . ) ;)




Thursday, December 13, 2018

Blue Ridge Mountains with Marmi and Papa

This is from a few weeks ago when Marmi and Papa came to visit, hooray!
Marmi and Isaac


Marmi supervising the girls' fun climbing up a rock slab.



Marmi and Papa

David, Seth, Will and Grace


Marcie tends to do her own thing while the others cluster together.

King and Queen of the Mountain, Seth and Gracie

Seth and Will, and yes, they are far away from the edge! It looks closer than it is.
(I get emails from concerned individuals when I post photos like this!)


Sweet baby Gracie
This photo of Seth's face looks like when he was a baby. I love it.

Gracie

Daddy and David



Papa and Gracie and Will
I thought Gracie's eyes were from being a preemie,
but they're from my Great Aunt  Alice (right)


Gavin, Carrie, Isaac, Will, David, Marcie, Seth, & Grace Jones

Gavin, Carrie, Isaac, Will, David, Marcie, Seth, & Grace Jones

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